I remember the flags, the flags flying at half-staff in almost every yard in Wenham, flags carefully hung up on the sides of houses or draped sorrowfully over white-railed porches. Flags flew from the backs of pickups, and children stuck them in their backpacks and taped them to the mailboxes. When the hardware stores and shopping malls sold out of their summer supply of flags, people made their own.
It was almost a compulsion, this need to fly a flag in the days that followed 9/11. We needed to identify with the victims and their families, to stand with this violated country, our country, and to proclaim with vehemence, “We are, all of us, Americans.”
An attack on any one of us is an attack on us all. We crouched in our living rooms, huddled around our TVs, watching the horror of innocence lost, and wondered how such an evil could come into our own harbor. How dare they step onto this soil where so much blood was shed in the name of freedom. How dare they try to control us with fear.
We flew our flags in defiance to tyranny and we proclaimed, “We are, all of us, Americans, and we will never again bow to fear.”
Nearly a year after 9/11, I stood in the sweltering heat and looked down at the gaping wound where two buildings once stood. The streets had been cleared of debris but plywood boards still covered the broken out windows of the buildings surrounding the Twin Towers. It was still so fresh, still so agonizing, even though so many months had passed. Up above me, the neighboring buildings stood like empty sentinels, marked with shrapnel from the shattered buildings. They would never be the same.
But someone had draped those ragged walls with flags, and as we came from all across the country to look at what our minds could not comprehend, we stood under those flags and felt a certain sense of solidarity. We are, all of us, Americans.
Today, Ground Zero is a memorial, and 9/11 is a day of remembrance. Flags are flying on my street, and I am telling my children. Each one of us has a story of where we were on that day. Each of us has a memory that will stay with us forever.
We are, all of us, Americans, and we will never forget.
Tiffany (lifewithblondie) says
I love your post. I was so glued to the news in the weeks that followed 9/11. To this day my heart breaks for the people lost, especially the fire fighters. As the daughter of a fireman, that really gripped me.
Anne says
You’ve said it very well. We were out in New York in October, 2001, in a small town named Warwick, about an hour northwest of New York City. So many people had lost family members who were either in the towers that day for work or were emergency responders of one sort or another who had rushed to the aid of those in the towers. There were funerals every day while we were there. It broke my heart and I will NEVER forget.
fiveintow says
I remember the funerals too, and all the stories of all those people. It is (still) incomprehensible.
Nicole Parvin says
I love your post but I never have time to read them, would you please remove me from your blog? Thanks.
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fiveintow says
Hi Nicole,
Thanks for your comment. I’m afraid I can’t unsubscribe you, but you can unsubscribe yourself by scrolling down to the last e-mail you received from my blog. If you’ve already deleted it, wait for the next one. At the very bottom you’ll see a place to unsubscribe. I believe you can also do the same thing at WordPress’s site, but that’s a little more work.
I’m sorry to lose you as a reader but I completely understand how hard it is to keep up with blogs.
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Kristen